Artificial Relationship

WHAT!

An feeling towards someone that is unreal but you enjoy being around, to the point that when you have to leave you cant resist but to stay. This can be acting fake around someone to gain someone trust, to gain friends or maybe because your lonely trying to be compatible with people you want to blend with.

Social network creates artificial relationship between people, be serious who is going to actually know over 1000 friends and understand their personality or even remember their names. People these days are hooked in social networking website and basing it around reality. Please get back to reality, as those feeling of them people asking you questions and assuming they care about you, honestly probably 1 in 10 of your 1000 friends will.

However in my opinion the worst type of artificial relationship, is people using people in a relationships/friendship, in order to gain popularity? money? power?. It actually shows how scary these people are, how much effort they will spend to do such things, in order to gain success.

Sooo...

Be grateful for your real friends around you

cherish people that you are with. (:

CMPang x

University

3 years of uni is this enough?

education, makes me think has it got the better of me...or worse

as soon as people move on an adapt to uni life, everything before seems such a mystery? the friends you had the people you hang around with, seem so different now. Is uni suppose to be like this? changing your friendship groups, because soon as you move away to another city you adapt to the place, meet new friends and sometime people forget about the ones before.

As i realised heading back to my own city, i have so little reason to go out meeting my 'friends' as everyone has changed and adapted to a new lifestyle, each time i go back it seems that many people have made new friendship groups.

it is true that year by year you become distant to your previous friends, and you move on... is this acceptable? as i realised now that my previous friends, as harsh as it sound is irrelevant to my lifestyle now and sometime just don't need them... meaning? were there friends at all...

all i can say is we had good times. but it ends there.

Dosage of life?

medicine of reality. have you taken your dosage?

Treasure and cherish everything that happened with your close one, as year by year there are people that will leave and enter their new reality. it part of growing up it part of nature, however what hit me recently is DAM people change so quickly, is it a mask? how people can turn from hot to cold, how people can be so out of the ordinary. is it because their afraid of their reality.

i wish their was a medicine that will just show people their true colours.

Friends.

..this can become an sensitive topic but this is interesting what people think and even though many people say they don't categorise their friends but sub-consciously they are,, as there can be formed with many category such as "hi-bye friends" and "Good friends".

Do you categorise your friends?

YES. I DO.

Reason why i do so is because in this world you are guarantee that not everyone you meet you will like, and not everyone can be your close friend. I select and choose friends as this sounds harsh and the amount of arrogance there are in these sentence you do want a good friend that you can trust and look back and say "reminiscence of the good times"....as close friends will always stick by you where as others wouldn't..

Friend Definition.

Hi-Bye Friend : These friends are people that you will walk passed and say hi/bye? simple enough.

Uni Friends : These are only when you need help in academic areas who you will go to

Sole Friends : Someone that is similar to you that can place your life too.

Social Network Friend : Based online that you won't normally see on a daily basis exception the internet.

Using Friends : when some friend use other to get where they want.

note: there many category that can be listed, however not one friend can be based on one category it can be a mixture of many...

To be fair....

in life you will come across different type of personality and characteristic, good and the bad my general words are be selective and be careful...as socialising is in our nature and you will meet and greet some but each person that does come along just respect opinions and facts.. if not the right friend there no need to mock or hate... just leave and ignore :)