Generic Q&A after breakup.

It genuinely doesn't matter how much you pour your heart to someone; if that person doesn't respond it mean it's over...

We hear generic questions and answers regarding when people break up...

After that initial question - what happened ? 

Then the following generic things you will receive from different forms of people...

• You can do better

• Don't let yourself look like a mug

• You got to stop messaging her/him, she/he needs his/her time 

• Your too good for him/her

• Your attractive... you can get any guy/girl you want...

• Maybe she/he feeling the same towards you...

• Just dead it.

• Don't find him/her if they want you they will have their ways coming to you.

• That person needs to do hell a lot to get you back.

• Why you let yourself get mistreated?

• It's going to hurt now, but time is an essence and will heal you.

• This is the ideal way to let go of each other.

• Don't be foolish you know it won't be marriage material.

• He/she played you, let it go. 

• What was so great about them?

i'm sure there is plenty more that have been said... 

What on my mind why can't that person you end it with won't be able to communicate the correct information. Instead of receiving different forms of realities and giving somewhat of a hope, if not hope a reliance on what someone else said... to hope they would tell you the words you'd like to hear... 

I'm pretty sure at end of any relationship; there is someone each individual will go too. They will shoot you in the foot with harsh truth or generic information that you've heard time and time again..

Why do our heart? Soul? Mind? Let this simmer and marinate in our mind that something could be done out off this...

Seriously when people say communication is the key in a relationship, well communicate even if it's ending and being brutally honest than not saying anything at all... could be the best solution... 

but who is willing to say it first? why disappoint that a person that was important to you? why be a coward to shy away? 

there are so many questions that will go in that person head if nothing is cleared... 

i hope people are strong and say what they mean, respond what they want to and not be a coward and shy away from the truth...

Cmpang x